Comedian and actor Russell Brand has been accused of abuse, including sexual assault and rape, by four women. The allegations – which Brand denies – include the sexual assault of a woman who says she was in a relationship with Brand when she was 16 and he was in his 30s.
The alleged victim, known as Alice, has suggested that a discussion should take place around changing the age of consent to protect young people from older adults. One option, which she raises, is that a staggered approach would allow sexual relationships between people aged 16-18 but would prohibit older adults from having sex with young people in this age group.
This, on face value, appears to be an approach that might work – and it’s incredibly important that we have these conversations about how to protect young people. But unfortunately, changing the age of consent alone may be too simplistic a solution for a complex problem.
What the law says
The current age of consent dates back to 1885, when it was raised to 16 from 13 after a campaign by the Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children (now the NSPCC). The law states that anyone who is 16 or over can take part in legal sexual activity – mutual masturbation, oral sex and penetrative sex. The legal age of consent for sex between men was lowered from 18 to 16 in 2000 via the Sexual Offences (Amendment) Act.
However, there are other legal protections in place for young people aged under 18. Additional legislation states that it is illegal to photograph or video under 18s taking part in sexual activity, pay for sex from them, or take part in sexual activity with them if in a position of trust or a member of their family.
Cases of child sexual exploitation also consider a child to be someone aged under 18. In some cases, a young person over the age of 16 may be considered to not have been able to give consent.
But despite the presence of these protective elements in law for those under the age of 18, sexual abuse of young people is still widespread. What’s more, in cases of sexual exploitation, often complex and well-planned grooming has taken place beforehand, making it hard for the young person to realise that they are being exploited. A change in the age of consent would not stop this kind of grooming happening to young people under 18. It simply won’t work.
Understanding healthy behaviour
Raising the age of consent also runs the risk of asserting more control over the bodies of young people and removing their agency. If, as has been suggested, sexual relationships between people aged 16-18 is permissible, but is not allowed between this age group and older adults, young people having sex may run into issues when the older teen in a relationship turns 19. This approach risks criminalising healthy sexual behaviour.
Young people should be able to talk about sex and relationships without fear of shame.Olimpik/Shutterstock
There are a number of steps that certainly should be taken to help young people. One is good relationships and sex education that equips young people with the knowledge to better recognise an abusive or potentially abusive scenario – when they are being taken advantage of or are being put in an unsafe situation.
This education should include input from young people: we need to listen to them and the solutions that they suggest as they are the experts on what they need.
Another is to create environments – at schools, at home, at youth clubs and other places – where young people can talk about relationships and sex without shame. Speaking out about abuse is notoriously difficult for young people because they worry they will be judged or that speaking to someone will lead to negative consequences. Safe spaces for these conversations need to be created.
The allegations against Brand have brought societal issues to the forefront that have been in the background for many years. This, in itself, is not a bad thing. We need to consider why toxic behaviour and imbalanced relationships go ignored and unnoticed in society. It is useful to remember that candid and open conversations about how to protect young people from abuses, grooming and exploitation can only be a good thing.
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</blockquote><script async="" defer="" src="//platform.instagram.com/en_US/embeds.js"></script><p>Of course, the holiday experience wouldn't be complete without delicious festive treats. Warm up with a hot meal at Willard's Hotel or Harvest Barn, where they'll be serving holiday classics.</p><p>If you're craving something sweet, stop by the Village Café or the snack hut for a hot BeaverTail or a steaming cup of hot chocolate.</p><p>Santa's workshop will also be open from November 29 to December 23, where you can grab a festive photo with the big guy himself and share your holiday wishes. </p><p>Then, pop over to Christ Church, where classic carols are sung by costumed carollers in a scene that feels straight out of a Victorian Christmas card.</p><p>There's also a giant, glowing toy train, which kids can take a 15-minute ride on, stopping for photos along the way.</p><blockquote class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/C1p_KHahkCV/?utm_source=ig_embed&ig_rid=cd85b043-a077-459a-9203-db069c867416" data-instgrm-version="4" style="background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:658px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);">
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</blockquote><script async="" defer="" src="//platform.instagram.com/en_US/embeds.js"></script><p>For more holiday fun, head to Crysler Hall to watch the Festive Sound and Light Show, where hundreds of vibrant lights dance along to classic holiday tunes. You can also shop for gifts and artisan products at the Village Store.</p><p>There's also a whole lineup of other activities at the festival, including snapping pics at the giant Lite-Brite installation, posing with gingerbread figures and Snowy Silhouettes, or cuddling up on the Mistletoe Loveseat for a cozy photo op. </p><p>In the Frosty Fun Zone, kids and adults alike can sip hot drinks, decorate ornaments, play holiday games, and even leave a chalk message on the Chilly Chalkboard.</p><p>When you're ready to unwind, Blitzen's Barn offers a cozy storytime session around the fireplace. One of Santa's elves will be on hand to tell classic holiday tales.</p><blockquote class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/DCkoDnlhiOn/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==" data-instgrm-version="4" style="background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:658px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);">
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</blockquote><script async="" defer="" src="//platform.instagram.com/en_US/embeds.js"></script><p>Tickets start at $17 for general admission (ages 13+), with discounts available for kids, students, and seniors. Little ones ages 0-4 are free but still need a ticket, so be sure to book ahead—tickets are non-refundable and non-transferable.</p><p>Pommier carriage rides start at $150 and can be shared by up to four people. This package includes full access to the Alight at Night Festival and a bonus of four tickets for Upper Canada Village’s 2025 day programming.</p><p>For those who want to experience the lights but need a more accessible option, there are designated accessibility nights on December 4, 11, and 18, when guests can take a 30-minute driving tour through the village to enjoy the festival from the warmth and comfort of their vehicles.</p><h3>Alight at Night, Upper Canada Village</h3><br/><blockquote class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/C1cuEh5PalD/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link" data-instgrm-version="4" style="background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:658px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);">
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</blockquote><script async="" defer="" src="//platform.instagram.com/en_US/embeds.js"></script><p>Price: General admission (ages 13+) is $17</p><p>When: Select dates from November 29, 2024 to January 4, 2025</p><p>Address: 13740 County Rd. 2, Morrisburg, ON</p><p>Accessibility: Parking is free, and all paths are wheelchair accessible (though winter weather can affect conditions). Pets are not permitted, but service animals are welcome.</p><p>Why You Need To Go: Whether you're after a festive stroll with friends, a magical family outing, or a cozy carriage ride with a special someone, this holiday festival has everything to make your Christmas season sparkle.</p><p><a href="https://www.uppercanadavillage.com/event/alight-at-night/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Alight at Night event page</a></p><p><em>Before you get going, check out our <a href="https://www.mtlblog.com/responsible-travel-guidelines" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Responsible Travel Guide</a> so you can be informed, be safe, be smart, and most of all, be respectful on your trip.</em></p>